06-07-2021 08:11 PM
06-07-2021 08:11 PM
@Oaktree wrote:I want to know how to take first steps into physical activity from next to nothing. Even if it's just walking. How do I get myself off the couch and out the door? I guess I need some sort of a plan
Yes write yourself a weekly goal can help. Plan it out. Like, on Monday & Weds I will do 15 mins walking or 15 mins gardening or 15 mins "insert something you might like to try here". Then don't overthink it. Monday comes, head out the door. Weds comes head out the door. Don't talk yourself out of it by procrastinating. The first few weeks May really suck and be boring, but give it time to become habit, I guarantee you'll start to look forward to it. Then just gradually increase your time.
06-07-2021 08:12 PM
06-07-2021 08:12 PM
I love that @Eve7
Takes me back to little athletics where every parent thought their child would be an Olympian 😁
Me included 😄
06-07-2021 08:13 PM - edited 06-07-2021 08:23 PM
06-07-2021 08:13 PM - edited 06-07-2021 08:23 PM
Are there barriers or limitations to physical activity that you notice, and what are they?
A big barrier that's come up for me in the last few years is a big change to my energy levels- they've really gone noticeably down. So I might just need to readjust my expectations to doing less intensive forms of physical activity
Also, being non-binary, I really feel alienated by most sports which are gender-segregated. It's definitely an additional challenge, navigating to world of sports which hasn't always been the friendliest to LGBTIAQ+ and trans people 🏳️🌈I've definitely looked into LGBTIAQ+ clubs as a response
06-07-2021 08:13 PM
06-07-2021 08:13 PM
Thanks @bipolarbunny
06-07-2021 08:13 PM
06-07-2021 08:13 PM
@Oaktree fantastic question.
The thought of suddenly starting an exercise plan can be overwhelming.
Sometimes we can demotivate ourselves by feeling that we must commit to an extensive training plan - not the case!
It is important to start out small - for example, "I will walk outside for five minutes today, and see how I feel".
It does not have to be all-or-nothing, 0-100 for it to count as physical activity – especially in times when we are not feeling our best or are just starting out. 🙂
06-07-2021 08:15 PM
06-07-2021 08:15 PM
good points , thank you @bipolarbunny
06-07-2021 08:15 PM
06-07-2021 08:15 PM
Question 5: @Peregrinefalcon For many of us, we may not be feeling up to being active at the moment, or have a number of barriers that make it hard to set fitness goals. What is your key message for those who might be feeling like exercise is hard right now?
Everyone is welcome to share your key message for those following along 🙂
06-07-2021 08:17 PM
06-07-2021 08:17 PM
@Eve7 Yep dealt with my fair share of over eager parents wanting their 8 year old to represent Australia in Taekwondo at the Olympics. Ya gotta be gentle with their egos 🙂
06-07-2021 08:17 PM
06-07-2021 08:17 PM
For many of us, we may not be feeling up to being active at the moment, or have a number of barriers that make it hard to set fitness goals. What is your key message for those who might be feeling like exercise is hard right now?
My key message would be that it is okay not to feel up to physical activity right now. It can feel overwhelming to be bombarded with messages around the importance of physical activity when there are genuine barriers that can make it hard to do this.
When it comes to exercise, it is important to find your own path – it is certainly not ‘one size fits all’!
Sometimes we can set goals that are more than we can handle right now, or compare ourselves to what we feel we “should” be doing, leaving us feeling demotivated. Set yourself small goals and celebrate your achievements. For example, I will try this for 10 minutes, and if I am not feeling it then I will stop.
An issue arises when professionals will say "go for a run! Do a yoga class!" without recognising that some days, the most we can do is get out of bed. It can even exacerbate those feelings of hopelessness. A key point is: show compassion towards yourself and honour your limits are for that day. The last thing we need when we are struggling with our mental health is added exercise guilt! ❤️
06-07-2021 08:18 PM
06-07-2021 08:18 PM
Thanks @Peregrinefalcon for your response.
I tend to be all or nothing and very much a perfectionist.
Realising that I need to work up to it might just be the answer for me.
Start out small and work up to longer sessions.
Just start my moving a small amount but regularly might be key
I like @bipolarbunny's suggestion of writing a plan too.
So that I am accountable to myself
Stop the procrastination
and just Do it!
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