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01-01-2020 12:32 PM
01-01-2020 12:32 PM
Re: Happy new year!
Happy New Year everyone! Sorry @Zoe7 I wasn't moderating last night but I hope it was fun!! Thanyou for thinking of me.
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01-01-2020 02:19 PM
01-01-2020 02:19 PM
Re: Happy new year!
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01-01-2020 02:31 PM
01-01-2020 02:31 PM
Re: Happy new year!
Hey @Adge How are you today my little finch friend? DId that horrible loud music stop or keep you up all night?
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01-01-2020 04:25 PM
01-01-2020 04:25 PM
Re: Happy new year!
Hi @Zoe7 Your tag must not have come through (when you posted).
Because it's only there now.
The intrusiveness & loud vibrations of neighbour's speakers (goes through everything) - seems to trigger me quite badly.
So it's very hard to focus on (or do) anything else whilse it's happening - because I go straight into a Dissociation (trauma) response.
Sorry I did not manage to stay online (Forum Party) longer - dealing with the loud noise here is actually very draining.
It went all night, right through until 5.00am or so. Then they started it up again mid-morning, not quite as loud.
I did manage to get to sleep (thanks), but the noise woke me up again (several times).
That was with my ear plugs in (all night), with all my interior doors (& windows) closed - & with my own gentle classical music playing (inside), to try to mask some of the neighbour's noise.
Adge
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01-01-2020 05:28 PM
01-01-2020 05:28 PM
Re: Happy new year!
I am so sorry you had to put up with all that again @Adge Some people just have no regard for their neighbours at all and unfortunately you are on the receiving end of their selfishness. I hope that it doesn't start up again tonight and you can get some peace.
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01-01-2020 05:35 PM
01-01-2020 05:35 PM
Re: Happy new year!
Thanks @Zoe7 I find that being able to tell people on forums a bit about it - helps me to feel less isolated, in dealing with it.
I'm slowly developing a few strategies (like playing my own gentle music) - that help me to be a bit less victimised by it.
I have to work on it (strategies).
Otherwise I will stay inside house, never make use of my own backyard (garden) - & would continue to feel like a prisoner in my own house (because of loud noise intrusions).
Adge
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01-01-2020 05:40 PM
01-01-2020 05:40 PM
Re: Happy new year!
There must be council regulations where you can report the excessive noise @Adge Have you enquired about what they are and where to report it? It is not something you need to continue to put up with - even reporting it to the police - if you do so often enough they will interject. You could also ask your neighbour (the one you get on well with) to do the same - multiple complaints from multiple sources show a pattern of disturbance and there is more likely something that can be done as a reult to control the noise.
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01-01-2020 08:24 PM
01-01-2020 08:24 PM
Re: Happy new year!
Not a problem @Zoe7 , I kept falling asleep
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02-01-2020 09:04 AM
02-01-2020 09:04 AM
Re: Happy new year!
Have a great day good friend. Bimby2.
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02-01-2020 10:41 AM
02-01-2020 10:41 AM
Re: Happy new year!
its likely theyre in govt housing else their landlord would nt put up with it @Adge think supposed to be 3 strikes and youre out these days then they will send them to someone else. Theres time restrictions for noise and rights to peace and quiet. one time I rang cops when there were 12 undesirables having a party in 1 br flat mentioned a weapon, had the brief pleasure of seeing them on their knees hands over heads cops with guns drawn ha . if they want to act like animals go do it in a zoo