24-04-2018 07:30 PM
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I feel similar @TAB That no-one will be there for me when I'm infirm or dying.
That's because no-one has been (physically) for many years, I live alone.
Dad's passing (2 years ago) has left a void that cannot be filled (so far).
I still wish that he could somehow walk back in the door, just a wish not a delusion...
In my Carer role, I often have anxiety & intrusive fears & concerns about the people I care for - even the next day, over weekends, or long after I've gone home.
I cannot seem to leave those fears or concerns behind, to just enjoy myself (or my own time) at home, etc.
Adge
24-04-2018 07:32 PM
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Hello @NikNik
24-04-2018 07:35 PM
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Leaving Mr Shaz alone the first time after he attempted was scary for me also @Former-Member, @NikNik and then he attempted again
and the next time took himself to hospital
24-04-2018 07:38 PM
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@Former-Member, @NikNik, @Adge, @TAB, @Tanglefoot
we have choosen to work self employed where we are together but I get anxious when he goes up to the garage to do things as this is where i found him on his second attempt @NikNik
24-04-2018 07:40 PM
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It’s so important to remember - your reactions are so normal under the circumstances you're in.
They reflect how you feel and shouldn’t be judged by others who aren’t walking in your shoes. It’s also important to remember not to be tough on yourself! Everyone’s experience is unique, although there are many feelings and experiences that carers have in common.
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