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I don't want to treat him like a kid but that's almost where his mindset is. ive told him 4 times in a amatter of half an hour the same thing and hes come back out trying to pack on overnight bag for a reason that doesn't exist!!

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Hey @outlander
Sorry my friend. You are a true toughie. Even if it doesn't feel like it.

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thanks @MDT

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I am sorry @outlander, your mum should be doing more in my opinion. I hope the pain eases at least. Try and take a few deep breaths. And don't let her guilt trips get. To you. If anyone should feel guilty about anything  it's her.

 

Lots of hugs

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thanks @Gazza75 

seemed to have sorted mum out for now at least. 

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You have to stick with your guns with your pop @outlander

 

Evening Hams @MDT 

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wosrt part is he doesn't realise hes doing it. if I walk in there in 10 minutes he wont remember that he was out here trying to pack a bag or that I told him what it was for and that its not overnight. @Gazza75
if I open my mouth now my frustrations come out and I get the 'are you in a bad mood' lecture and usually he starts sulking.

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It's tough at the best of times @outlander. Focus on yourself and be selfish for a time  I know it is difficult, but, sometimes it's what needs to be done. Your. Pop.cant help it,. Don't take it. To heart OL.

 

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thanks @Gazza75
im going for a shower I suppose then try for some very unappealing soup.. again..

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Alright @outlander  just pretend it's something you really like. It won't be to long before you are back to.normal.and then some. Take.care and. Talk.soon.

 

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