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05 Apr 2025 03:49 PM
05 Apr 2025 03:49 PM
I agree @Appleblossom @Abner I love hearing people’s stories regardless of their backgrounds. You can learn so much from hearing and seeing other people’s history and culture it can change your perspective on things or broaden your perspective, which is never a bad thing I think. I don’t just mean ethnicity though also religion, gender diversity, neurodiversity, politics etc you may not agree with everything, but it’s a different perspective and if that makes you think and be more broad minded then I think it’s good.
I have a European part as well a great, great, great grandmother who was Portuguese other than that it’s English and Scottish. I identify with the Scottish part mainly and being me, and my love for nature, I spent some time on the Outer Hebrides.
05 Apr 2025 03:58 PM
05 Apr 2025 03:58 PM
That's true @Appleblossom @Till23 , and I don't think we appreciate that different perspectives on culture and life are both valid and inevitable. We shouldn't all hold the same views,attitudes or perspectives
05 Apr 2025 10:43 PM
05 Apr 2025 10:43 PM
@Abner true openness is so contested. The left fear hate speech and the right disparage wokeness. Multiculturalism can be used to divide rather than open up opportunity.
06 Apr 2025 03:11 AM
06 Apr 2025 03:11 AM
I @Till23 and @Appleblossom , that the European attitude towards nature been at best utilitarian. It's not occurred to us until now that our environment is a living organism that like us can be very badly hurt and become dysfunctional and unstable as a result. We're very good at hurting things and not so good at healing them.
06 Apr 2025 03:30 AM
06 Apr 2025 03:30 AM
Exercising free speech is one thing @Dimity , but exercising it knowing it's at someone else's expense is another, and unfortunately our species is always going to do both of those things; we'll never stop either from happening, and I for one intend to stand up to anyone who knowingly exercises their freedoms at the expense of others.
When we talk about freedoms, there was a time when people in Europe had a freedom to send people to concentration camps and death camps. As apalling as that is it was a freedom at that time to denounce them ànd do that. Just because something is a freedom doesn't make it right or conscionable.
06 Apr 2025 03:57 AM
06 Apr 2025 03:57 AM
In essence @Dimity , there are times that require us to think about our freedoms and ourselves "Will I use this freedom here, or now...or will I use it somewhere else." And having freedoms means deciding whether one is willing to hurt others in the exercise of their entitlement.
We all hurt others, that's inevitable in life, but to willingly hurt others in the exercise of one's entitlements is gratuitous, especially when you have other people and places you express those views with.
06 Apr 2025 08:27 AM
06 Apr 2025 08:27 AM
@Appleblossom @Shaz51 Short on words so sending🥰
06 Apr 2025 12:06 PM
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